Actually the reason i'm writing this right now is.. I just..don't really like when some people drag someone down by leaving such negative comments on their social medias (in public). Well i've read lots of rude comments people said to someone on social medias; doesn't matter if their intention is either to make someone be a better person or to make someone feels down.
My point here is, if..if you say something bad to them on their social medias just to make them feel bad about themselves, you shouldn't. You're just gonna make yourself look like a really desperate person, or should i say.. You're just reflecting how bad you are, as a human being in this temporary world. If you ever feel better watching them falling..you should realise that your heart is getting darker. And your distance with God is just getting further, and further. Is that what you really want? Be better. Don't let your sins silent your heart from calling The One Up There. Before you say something to people, think. Think wisely. Because you'll never know if they're gonna take your words seriously. Even if you're just joking. And don't ever complain that they're not being sporting etc, because we're all different. The limit of patience in each of us..they're different.
But if you leave comments in public, saying that they should change themselves for their own good, God bless your kind soul. But.. Why don't you just message them in private? And..why must in public..? Even though you're doing that just because you want them to be a better person, think. Think wisely. If there's someone reprove you in public, saying that you shouldn't do this and that, how do you feel? I mean, lets be honest here. If it was me, i wouldn't feel angry towards them. Instead i would thank them for remarking me to be a better person. But at the same time i would feel disappointed, like, is it hard to just reprove me in private? And i don't think you all are gonna do the way like i do. See..because we're different. Sometimes, you need to know how to help someone to be better. I mean, they way you reprove them. Use the correct way. Use positive words instead of negative words. You don't know..how that person has tried their best to be happy, how that person has tried their best to not fall.. And you don't even know, if that person cried all night long, just because of your words.
No offense. But i admit sometimes it looks like social & mental bullies to my eyes. Its not that you can't reprove someone to be a good person, its just that.. You should know.. Sometimes people take your positive words negatively; because they didn't even look at the brighter side. And sometimes people take your words too deep that they can even kill themselves because of those words. You should know the better way to reprove them. And not to forget, if you..really want to see them in Jannah, you should make du'as for them. InsyaAllah Allah will ease everything for you, and for that person. You know.. Its good to know that God helps them to be better..through your prayers.
So lets be better! As a human being, i know i also make mistakes, and i know, sometimes my words are (maybe) harsh for you to accept. But i didn't mean to make you feel down. I'm sorry. To anyone who's reading this right now, i'm genuinely sorry if i ever hurt you. Intentionally and unintentionally. May your heart filled with so much forgiveness, more than the stars in the sky. May Allah swt bless your life and protect your pure heart. Amin! So thats all for now. Sorry again..if my words hurt you. I'm just saying what i feel. Because it's hurting me..to see someone feels bad about themselves just because of some negative words they receive. And it actually makes my day, to finally get to write about this topic that some people might take it easy.. Ahh! Anyway thanks for your time reading my blog, appreciate that a lot! Bye! Assalamualaikum! :)
