Bismillahirrahmanirrahim
Assalamualaikum and well, hi everyone! Umm can i just go straight into our topic right now? Because i think its too cliche for me to say something like "its been a long time since blablabla.." Isn't it? Hahaha admit it!
Its Been Hard
Well i'm not really sure writing this is a good idea because not everyone can understand what i'm gonna say.. But nah, i still can give it a try right? Hehe. So basically today's topic is actually about perspective; how many people judge someone by looking at their past, by looking at their sins or wrongdoings. And i think its better to put some desperate words as the title because its been hard, for someone who wants to be good or do good, but they think they can never be, just because of others' perspectives towards them. You get me? Okay cool, lets get deeper now.
It's so unacceptable if people judge someone by their past. Look, if you see someone sins today, you better don't look at them as a sinner tomorrow. Why? Because you'll never know if they've regretted their wrongdoings, and repented to God that night. Even if they didn't, but still, don't look down on them. It will just make you look even worse. Okay, what i'm gonna point out here is, don't you think its too harsh for them to receive this type of judgement? Like they want to be good after all, but its just too hard, it doesn't go really smooth because people keep looking at them as a bad person. I think its just like second chances. Some people don't really believe in second chances, and some people think second chances are better. Well for me, we all deserve second chances. Imagine you do something wrong and people keep babbling about it. You'll definitely feel down and think like "Am i that bad?". Or maybe you'll fight for your own rights. Here, second chances play the role. Will you be forgiven? Will people still believe in you like before?
You know what? From my own perspective, many people can never stop judging others because we all know that they're human just like everyone else. So its been really really reaaallyyy hard for someone who wants to do good but is surrounded by those kind of people. If they say they can be a leader, people will just look at them like "Really?" "You?" "Leader?" "If that then you're gonna destroy this company!". If they say they can finish all the assignments by themselves, people will be like "Nah" "You'll never do that" "You never finish your works before!". Can you see the struggle they put to be better? If they say they can lead you, believe in them. And if they say they can finish all the works, then believe in them. Motivate them. "I believe in you" "If its getting hard, we're still here for you" "Goodluck then, i know you can do better". Is it hard to give good thoughts towards them? They're still human, they have feelings too. If they're not trying to be a better person, then why do they think they can be a leader? Why do they think they can finish their works? When they know there are other people they can depend on? Just..please, don't look down on them just because they always had arguments before, they always made fun of other people before, they always came late and didn't finish their works before. Its all about past. Unless they're still playing and didn't change for good until now.
I know everyone has their own problems or challenges that need to be faced.. But here, the situation is different, in which some people just cannot change because they think like if they do something better, others will still look down on them, others will still judge them by their past, others will still look at them like the old them, others will still not believe in them. "You don't need to care what people think of you". It looks easy for some people, but indeed not all of us can do that. So whats now? Everyone should be respected. Even when you're with your friends, you still have your limit in which they should respect you, am i right or am i right? It's sooo difficult for me to explain these things, but somehow i think its necessary for me to send out this kind of message. I feel really bad looking at someone who faces something like i said before. They really want to be a better person. They really want to make their parents proud of them. And they really want to give their best, in everything they do. Can we give them another chance and believe in them instead?
I still feel like expressing my mixed feelings right now but.. to put it in words is hard. Because sometimes it depends on the situation. Like if someone say they'll never do blablabla, but they still end up by doing the blablabla again, then whats the point of giving them another chances? Unless they really regret with themselves. Well I think thats all for now, i'm sorry if my words hurt any of you. Thankyou for reading this blogpost of mine. Really appreciate.
